If anyone finds out, they could report you, and you will go to jail, not just the parents reporting it. The fact that you guys had sex before you turned 18 (assuming you have), could very well mean that just having contact with her, would be reason enough to press charges. The parents wouldn't be the only one to worry about.
When you turn 18, if you continue to have a relationship that includes, kissing, touching, sleeping in the same bed naked, oral sex, putting your hands on her butt or breasts, you could be charged with a sexual crime. Yep, in order to legally marry without parental consent or a court order, you and your gf must both be at least 18.
Her parents know about me and the issue and they like me enough to where they wouldn't press charges I am sure.
The parents wouldn't be the only one to worry about.
Not going to happen, but for your viewing pleasure I will post the link for all 50 state statutes. He is 5 years older than you and you are 17 years old. what state are you in and I'll find the exact laws I'm assuming Idaho since she posted it as a follow up on an Idaho thread. To break it down since this is SO confusing to you: K Got to this particular link (although, this is not the ONLY part that is illegal)Just click on the link, click on criminal code, click on Idaho, click on Ch. According to that link, just an Instant Message describing what they'd like to do could be 25 years in jail. So, the "boyfriend" has gotta' ask himself..."how much is a relationship with the 17 year old worth to me?
YOU get to read through all of it to find the information you need. Also I am not trying to go against my fathers will necessarily. Do I want to be the cell block's new girlfriend/currency"? Pretty much I am just going to give up on **** with this guy.
Violating this law will result in being charged with a misdemeanor offense and the penalties include: It is illegal for anyone over the age of 18 to sell or furnish alcohol to a person under the age of 21.
The penalties for violating this law will result in being charged with a misdemeanor offense and the penalties include: It is against the law for anyone under age 21 to use a fake id to enter a licensed establishment or persuade a retailer to sell them alcohol.
If you have any contact at all, after your father gets one, he goes straight to jail, and you face penalties also, for going against a restraining order.
If you love him, you and he will wait, until it is ok with your father, if you don't , you won't wait, and you will be saying hi between the glass window, at jail. We really do care, and we know, some of us have had our own families affected by this, so we take this very seriously. Don't you know by now that when youngsters DEMAND to see the statutes that make what they want to do illegal and you show them, that they never come back?
Anything that is sexually arousing or stimulating is out until you are 18. We are not here to beat you up, promise, we are here to make sure that you know what can happen, in every situation, so you do not have to find out the hard way (neither does he)!!
You are allowed to date whovever your parents allow you to date. The confusion comes in when the people involved can't figure out that dating does not equate to sexual contact. Your parent have complete, unassailable control over you until you are 18. Another teen that is trying to find the law to overrider her parents' dictates. That's a pretty steep penalty to risk for having a few brief moment of pleasure with a minor. Just think..can love him into a life sentence seperated from everybody and everything he law says you are under your parents complete control until you are 18- you do what they tell you to do. According to that link, just an Instant Message describing what they'd like to do could be 25 years in jail.
If anyone finds out, they could report you, and you will go to jail, not just the parents reporting it. The fact that you guys had sex before you turned 18 (assuming you have), could very well mean that just having contact with her, would be reason enough to press charges. We haven't already, a little bold and to the point but thanks for your help. Soooo, no sex and no marriage until you are both at least 18 years of age.