, this is a bad way to get a woman’s phone number). And, if she has nothing else to do, she might actually see you.
Presumably, she was attracted to you when you met, but this dissipates over time.
You can’t build a ton of attraction in text messages but you can build some, and you can use texts to bring her attraction levels back up to the level where you first met and you can maintain it there.
However, we will often still use bridging techniques because A) sometimes we might err and think a woman is more committed or less flaky than she turns out to be and B) they won’t hurt. Often they are unnecessary, since with good game, you can get most women to answer the phone and make plans.
However, they are important for a couple of reasons.
Even so-called experts are not in bars, clubs, restaurants, parks, coffee shops, and lounges interacting with the most beautiful women there, day after day, and actually practicing what they preach.
We use what works, no matter how unusual it seems on paper, so stay open-minded and let your only judge be how well these techniques work in the real world.
You don’t have to worry about her mood or her schedule when you text; if she’s not free, she’ll read it when she is.
And it takes far less commitment on her part to return a text message than it does to answer the phone or return a call.
Or any other man she met that night - if you noticed her, other men did too.
She likes all of the attention and flirting, but she doesn’t have time to go on 9 dates this week.
They agreed that they both hate clinginess and the words “cuddle” and “snuggle.” So Braddock followed up with: Always sign your name on the first text. ” text message response, which costs emotional momentum. Now communication has been established and you can go from there.